When you have her number, what do you do next? (2023)

So you have a girl number.Now you're probably freaking out and don't know what to make of this.(After all, read this page.)

But you don't have to worry. It's natural to get excited about dating the girl you like. If you don't know what to do to initiate the contact and get her to have positive feelings for you, learn more after reading this page.

By the way, I bet you already know what to do with that number on your cell phone. Are you just scared now that you arepetrifiedand can't think straight. So take a deep breath and stay calm.

So before you do anything with the girl's number. . . There is something you should be aware of. And it is very important because it can increase or decrease your chances of connecting with her.

What not to (ever) do when calling or texting a girl

If there's one thing that should help you avoid getting blocked or ghosted by a girl, it's this: avoid calling her four times in a row or texting her multiple times without getting anything back.

In short, if she doesn't give you anything to work with or think about, don't expect anything else. That shouldn't be too difficult, should it?

See. She gets your messages. You can be sure of that. Her text messages haven't been lost on the way to her phone. So when you send her a message, you expect her to return a message. Don't start exercising your fingers if they don't give you anything in return.

It's tempting, but don't do it.Why do you ask?

It's a big turnoff. It shows that you don't know what to do. If you keep texting this girl like a hungry puppy, you will tease her. She won't answer. And it will look busy all the time.

don't think too much

Having her number will make you feel like you need to do something "perfect" for the situation. They want the perfect words, the perfect action, and the perfect reaction. Why? Because it looks like one little slip-up could cost you your chance to be with her -forever.

I'm here to tell you, don't make a fuss about it. You're just putting yourself under unnecessary pressure.

So don't think endlessly and don't worry.

Take it easy. keep it simple Cold!😎

It's normal to feel anxious when making contact with a new girl for the first time. Completely normal. When you can't sit still and your mind is working, you're probably thinking about being rejected and the world coming to an abrupt end.

None of that really matters. If nothing comes of it, you get other numbers from other girls. overcome yourself

Are you worried about being too strong and making you look desperate?Do not be.

All you have to do is follow what you have read here and you will be fine. She will not consider you undesirable unless you consider yourself unworthy.

You know what helps a lot?Get some numbers from other girls. Suddenly your state of mind changes from fear and anxiety to carefree and confident. And girls will chase you for it.

Would you reconsider if girls were after you? I do not think so.

Now that you know what to consider when looking at her number and thinking about what to do next, here's another question for you:

how did you get her number

Just to clarify, you didn't find it scrawled on a dirty wall, right?

Maybe you went behind her back. Your friend gave it to you after you asked for it, gave you a piece of paper with her number on it instead of asking her for it. I'm not judging here, but. . . You have to explain something when she doesn't know you have her number and suddenly you started texting her out of the blue.

However, if you chatted and exchanged numbers with her, thumbs up! 👍 And I assume that's how you get their digits.

Well, how long have you had her number? Is it still fresh enough for you to smell her perfume? I'm asking because I'm about to tell you. . .

When should you contact them?

Guess what? There is no ideal waiting time to hook up with a girl. Such a rule is not set in stone. In case you haven't heard, the 3-day rule is old - andprobably dead and buried. And you're not in a rom-com.

So, even if you get in touch now, you won't seem too eager when

You know how to design "cool" like this guy 👉 😎.

Of course you can wait a few days if you wish. Give the girl time to think about you and make her wonder why she hasn't heard from you; This assumes that she is interested and attracted to you. Otherwise, the passing of days won't make her more curious about you.

Decide for yourself about the advantages and disadvantages. Just don't try to play games with a woman. Don't make things complicated.

Like I said, keep it simple.

She's probably waiting for your message or call. That's why she gave you her number. If she doesn't want you to contact her, she can use a number of excuses to avoid you giving you her number — without being too mean. But . . . Know that if you expect too much, that expectation can turn into disappointment. And then to indifference. So don't hesitate.

If you just got it - like you did five minutes ago - you can message her now.

What should you say in your first message?

After you've received her number for a few minutes, text her so she can save your number if she hasn't already.

Think of it this way: When you spoke to her, you used a different "channel". And now you're about to change channels.

So make sure she has your number saved on her phone so that when you call or text her she knows who you are and doesn't mistake you for a complete stranger. An unfamiliar number showing up on her phone doesn't have the same impact as a name she knows bringing back the flood of good feelings she got from talking to you.

AND . . . Add a little personality to your first text message, something that will at least put a smile on her face.Go here to read more:First SMS you send after getting their number.

If you want to make a good impression. . .

. . . so youhe mustcall her.

Nowadays most men are afraid to dial and call a woman's number. They prefer text messages as they cause less panic. But while it's a much easier and less stressful way to engage with a lady, texting also removes a lot of conversational nuance.

But with a voice (or video) call, you can sound confident and confident. So when calling a girl make sure you exude control and confidence.Here are some tips for calling girls on the phone.

If you're still texting instead of speaking, follow these steps.Rules for texting girls.

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When you get a girl numberRemember that: Your number is not what you are looking for. It's just a means of getting in touch with her later - sooner is best. And make an appointment.

So it's important that you just send themthe right text messagesthat make them look forward to a date with you.